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The Ultimate Bucket List.................for Sex.
Or six sexy fantasies to experience as soon as you possibly can! Who wants to swim with sharks or wing walk when you can get your rocks off and experience some close encounters of the sexual kind? Everyone knows how to write a bucket list – it’s meant to be stuff that you want to do before you die. Maybe things like skydive, wing walk, swim with sharks and so on but when it gets right down to it, perhaps you really want your bucket list to be more of a fucket list and therefo
Jessica Lansdown
Mar 304 min read


Is BDSM suddenly mainstream, or is it still deliciously taboo?
Is it kinky to want to be tied down, and what is kink anyway? Six things about BDSM that every woman should know. Since the stories of fifty shades hit the streets, BDSM has become much more mainstream, but do you still wonder what it’s all about? If you have wondered about BDSM or you are into so called kinky sex, it’s not usually something that you would choose to discuss openly. You may discuss it with a few select acquaintances that have the same tastes as you, if you ar
Jessica Lansdown
Mar 294 min read


Dominance and Submission - a whole new world of sex?
Actually, as a set of behaviours between two adults, Dominance and Submission, has likely been around for many, many years. Dominance and Submission (D/s) can be intensely physical, often crossing into sado-masochism when both sides derive pleasure from dominating or being dominated sexually. Customs and rituals can and do exist in the D/s lifestyle filled with erotic enjoyment and are often seen as a subset of BDSM . Those who take the superior position are called the Domina
Jessica Lansdown
Sep 9, 20225 min read


Fair Share of Erotica - But is passionate, erotic sex all in your head?
I read my fair share of erotica - well you’ve got to keep up with what’s out there haven’t you? I hate to say it but some of it is just plain awful - no story line, plastic characters and not a lot of dialogue but often plenty of ‘wham bam thank you mam’ Many of these erotic stories seem to suggest that people go around ready to have sex with strangers with virtually no pre amble or conversation. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for getting on with things but I’ve always believed
Jessica Lansdown
Jul 9, 20222 min read


Ravaged - Is it pure lust, or a desperate passion?
Is it pure lust, or a desperate passion? From my small survey, I discovered 6 reasons why women like us want to be ravaged. It’s when you see that attractive man on the street, in a bar or even in the supermarket and immediately you think of his arms wrapped around you, holding you tightly, making you feel wanted! Being ravaged just represents supreme desire, it shouts out very loudly, ‘I can’t wait any longer, I’ve got to have you now.’ It’s desire, it’s longing, it’s co
Jessica Lansdown
Jul 7, 20222 min read
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